Jenny Jarvis is the creator of the LINK Relational Architecture system, co-founder of the Relational Engineering Institute, and co-founder of Kensho Kai Wellness & Counseling and Enso Empowerment Services in Salt Lake City. Her attachment-based approach helps couples rebuild connection by working on the architecture of the relationship, not the details of a fight. She is known especially for her work with neurodiverse couples, many of whom arrive after mainstream approaches left them feeling unseen or asked to mask who they are. Understanding that neurodiverse relationships have unique needs and high divorce rates, she set out to change the narrative and empower clients to build relationships that thrive. With Jenny’s background in martial arts and coaching, she brings unique skills that address the nervous system, cognitive processing, attachment trauma, cultural influences, and identity within a relationship, and she assists couples in empowering them to create the relationships they want.
Through LINK, Learn, Implement, Nurture, Know, Jenny guides couples through a structured, practical system that turns insight into daily change, with clear tools for communication, needs, boundaries, and authentic, lasting connection.
IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:
- Why neurodiverse couples need specialized strategies instead of mainstream approaches that ask them to mask who they are.
- Why attachment needs drive recurring conflict and how matching safety, comfort, or care signals creates durable connection.
- How relationship architecture helps couples rebuild connection by addressing the relationship's structure rather than the details of a fight.
- Why therapists and coaches must accurately match each partner's wired signals to prevent disconnection and unmet needs.
- How the LINK system moves couples through Learn, Implement, Nurture, and Know to turn insight into daily change.
- How to create practical tools for communication, needs, and boundaries that support authentic, lasting connection.
- Why neurodiverse couples face higher divorce rates without strategic interventions tailored to differing cognitive processes.
- How nervous system regulation and self-awareness help partners understand their own triggers and their partner's processing style.
- Why recognizing each partner's unique needs and accessibility requirements is critical for a thriving relationship.
- How Jenny's martial arts background informs nervous system, attachment trauma, and identity work within relationships.
about the show
Love Experts is an expert-led television series featuring dating coaches, relationship experts, psychologists, matchmakers, and professionals who help people understand love, communication, attraction, compatibility, and long-term partnership.
Each episode gives viewers a closer look at the work behind modern relationships. Guests share their experience, professional insights, client lessons, and personal perspectives on what helps people build stronger, healthier, and more meaningful connections.
The series explores topics such as dating, emotional connection, relationship patterns, communication styles, trust, conflict, compatibility, marriage, and the challenges people face while looking for lasting love in today’s world.
Love Experts goes beyond simple relationship advice. It highlights the experts who have dedicated their careers to helping others navigate one of the most important parts of life: human connection.
For featured guests, the series provides a platform to share their expertise, build authority, and help viewers better understand the science, psychology, and real-world experience behind love and relationships.
